Mental Health & Wedding Musicians: The Hidden Pressures Behind the Gigs

Key Findings from FixTheMusic’s 2025 Survey of 600 UK Musicians

• 68% of wedding and event musicians experience symptoms of anxiety at least once a week during peak season

• 41% say their mental health has worsened since the pandemic

• 1 in 3 have considered leaving the profession due to stress and instability

• 23% identify VAT as a major financial pressure

• 36% report fewer EU bookings since Brexit

When most people picture wedding musicians, they imagine joy, celebration and the satisfaction of earning a living doing what you love. For many, performing at weddings and events is exactly that: a rewarding career built on talent and connection.

Yet behind the polished performances and smiling faces lies a more complex reality. Life as a freelance wedding or event musician can be emotionally and financially demanding, and the pressures often go unseen.

Most existing research on mental health in the music industry focuses on orchestral players or large-scale touring artists. Far less attention has been given to the thousands of gigging musicians who travel across the UK every weekend to perform at weddings and private events. This group forms a significant part of the live entertainment economy, yet their experiences are rarely documented in detail.

At FixTheMusic, we work directly with thousands of musicians and bands across the UK and Europe. In a 2025 internal survey of more than 600 active performers on the platform, we found that 68 percent of respondents reported experiencing symptoms of anxiety at least once a week during peak wedding season.

A further 41 percent said their mental health had worsened since the pandemic, and one in three had considered leaving the profession altogether because of stress, instability and financial pressure.

These findings come at a time when the UK’s freelancer economy is under growing political and economic scrutiny. Cost of living pressures, the frozen VAT threshold and the ongoing effects of Brexit are reshaping how small cultural businesses operate. Wedding musicians are feeling these effects particularly sharply.

The Pandemic’s Shadow

The COVID-19 pandemic created a shock that the live events sector is still feeling today. According to UK Music’s 2021 report, the live music industry’s contribution to the economy fell by 90 percent in 2020. Events were cancelled overnight and freelance performers found themselves without income or government safety nets.

Many wedding musicians were ineligible for the Self-Employment Income Support Scheme or faced long delays before receiving funds. Some left the industry entirely to take on more stable work. Others tried to hold on, often experiencing severe financial strain and loss of professional identity.

“I went from 40 weddings a year to zero. Music had always been my life and suddenly I had no idea who I was without it.” — Tom, guitarist with a FixTheMusic band.

Even several years later, the psychological impact of this period remains. In our survey, 57 percent of musicians said they still feel anxious about the possibility of a similar event happening again, despite strong bookings in 2024 and 2025.

A Freelance Career Under Pressure

Performing at weddings is physically and mentally demanding work. A typical gig involves several hours of travel, loading and unloading equipment, performing multiple sets and driving home late at night. For some bands, this happens every weekend between April and October, with additional work during Christmas and New Year.

Freelance musicians receive no sick pay or holiday pay and often have no guarantee of consistent income. Many describe the stress of managing self-employment responsibilities, such as accounting, VAT registration and equipment maintenance, alongside the demands of performance.

Several credible studies show high rates of poor mental health among musicians. The Help Musicians-commissioned study Can Music Make You Sick? reported that about 71% of musicians had experienced anxiety or panic attacks and roughly 65-69% reported depression, based on a large UK survey published in 2016. More recently, the 2023 Musicians’ Census found 30% of UK musicians reporting low mental wellbeing. Separate epidemiological work also shows professional musicians have higher anxiety and depressive symptoms than the general workforce.

The FixTheMusic survey reflects this pattern. Nearly 70 percent of musicians said their biggest ongoing source of stress is the unpredictability of freelance income, with 52 percent reporting concerns about long-term financial stability.

“People see the photos from the stage. They don’t see the 2am motorway drives or the back-to-back weekends with no rest. It’s a lifestyle that looks glamorous but can be very isolating.” — vocalist with a FixTheMusic function band.

Sleep disruption, long travel times, irregular eating patterns and high physical demands can contribute to fatigue and burnout. One respondent described it as “living in a cycle of adrenaline and exhaustion”, especially during the peak summer months.

Economic Pressures and the Growth Ceiling

Financial stress is a recurring theme in conversations with gigging musicians. One significant factor is the VAT threshold in the UK, currently set at £90,000 in annual turnover. Once a band reaches this threshold, they must add 20 percent VAT to their prices, which can make them less competitive in the wedding market.

At first glance, £90,000 may sound like a healthy sum. In reality, this figure applies to total revenue, not profit. Once it is split between several band members, sound engineers, drivers and other contributors, the amount each individual takes home is far more modest.

Bands also face high operating costs including travel, fuel, insurance, equipment maintenance, marketing and replacement of instruments and sound gear.

In our survey, 23 percent of band managers said VAT was one of their biggest financial stressors, and 19 percent said they actively restrict bookings to avoid crossing the threshold.

Unlike many other industries, wedding musicians cannot easily absorb the VAT cost or scale their operations to offset it.

Rising fuel and travel costs, insurance premiums and equipment prices add further pressure. This has become part of a wider national debate, as small business groups and trade bodies continue to call for VAT reform. The frozen threshold is drawing criticism from across the self-employed and cultural sectors.

Post-Brexit Travel and International Bookings

Before Brexit, UK bands regularly performed at weddings and events across Europe. While the worst-case scenarios about touring restrictions did not fully materialise, logistical hurdles and changing client perceptions have reduced the number of overseas bookings for many acts.

Some European couples are now more likely to hire local musicians rather than flying in UK-based acts. This shift has been driven partly by cost concerns and partly by fears about potential travel disruption. Bands that previously performed dozens of weddings abroad each year now report far fewer international bookings.

“We used to play around 20 weddings a year in Italy and France. Now it’s five or six at most. It’s still possible, just not as easy as before.” — drummer with a FixTheMusic band.

36 percent of surveyed FixTheMusic musicians said they have seen a drop in EU bookings since Brexit, and 22 percent have shifted their business models to focus entirely on domestic work.

These changes align with wider reports from across the creative industries about the long-term effects of Brexit on cross-border work. While large touring acts have been able to adapt, smaller cultural businesses have found it harder to absorb the cost and complexity.

Anxiety About the Future

Even with strong booking numbers, many wedding musicians live with a persistent sense of instability. The cost of living crisis has led some couples to reduce entertainment budgets or book smaller acts. Others opt for DJs instead of live bands.

Pandemic memories are never far away. Over half of survey respondents said they worry each year about whether demand will remain stable, despite evidence that live music remains a priority for many couples.

These concerns are reflected in the broader economic picture. The UK’s freelance workforce, which makes up around 15 percent of all workers, remains largely excluded from workplace mental health schemes and employment protections. For many wedding musicians, this lack of support compounds the strain.

A Gap in the Research

There is now a growing body of research on musicians’ mental health, but most studies have focused on classical players, orchestral musicians or high-profile touring artists. Gigging wedding musicians, despite representing a large segment of the live performance workforce, remain underrepresented in academic and industry studies.

This gap matters because their experiences are different. Unlike orchestral musicians, wedding performers often work alone or in small groups with no institutional support structure. Unlike touring pop acts, they rarely have managers, tour crews or dedicated mental health resources.

The FixTheMusic data suggests this is a group experiencing high levels of stress and anxiety with relatively little formal support or recognition. More targeted research is needed to fully understand their needs and how best to address them.

Building Support and Community

There are reasons to be hopeful. Conversations about mental health in music are more open than they were a decade ago. Musicians are supporting each other more actively through peer networks, social media groups and informal communities.

Platforms like FixTheMusic can help by striving to offer more predictable streams of work and by connecting musicians with couples who value their craft. Consistency of bookings and fair rates can reduce some of the economic uncertainty that fuels anxiety.

Specialist organisations also offer dedicated support to musicians:

• Help Musicians provides mental health services, financial aid and career support

• Music Minds Matter runs a 24/7 mental health support line for musicians

• BAPAM offers specialist health support for performing artists

Practical steps can also help: setting clear travel and rest boundaries, planning realistic performance schedules, accessing financial advice early and sharing experiences openly with peers.

Why This Matters

The wellbeing of musicians is not a side issue. It affects the sustainability, quality and creativity of the entire live wedding and events sector. A thriving industry depends on performers who feel secure and supported in their work.

Wedding musicians bring joy to thousands of couples and guests every year. Their work is central to the atmosphere and emotion of many of life’s most important celebrations. Yet their struggles are often invisible to clients, planners and policymakers.

FixTheMusic’s research shows clearly that anxiety and uncertainty are widespread among this community. These pressures are shaped not just by the demands of freelance performance, but by wider national economic forces, from VAT and the cost of living to Brexit and the lack of freelancer protections.

By recognising these challenges and working collaboratively as an industry, government and cultural sector, we can build a healthier and more sustainable future for live music at weddings and events.