Songs for LGBTQIA+ First Dances: 30 Inclusive Picks

Love is love: let the music prove it

It’s Pride month! And what better way to celebrate than by going through our top song picks for LGBTQIA+ wedding celebrations.

At FixTheMusic, we’ve helped thousands of couples find their perfect live band, and we’re especially proud to work with an ever-growing roster of LGBTQIA+ friendly bands, singers and DJs. Whether you’re planning a lavish queer wedding, an intimate elopement or a non-binary celebration of commitment, your first-dance track should feel 100 percent you. No awkward gender assumptions, no forced “bride and groom” lyrics.

Much like the beautiful diversity of love in the queer community, there is a wealth of diversity of music to choose from for your special day. We’ve hand-picked some of our favourites, pulled from Spotify’s most-saved wedding playlists, TikTok, editor picks from Out Magazine and more.

Whether you’re an old soul looking for something classic, a romantic searching for the perfect ballad or just wanting to kick off married life with a full-blown dance party, this list will have something for you!

This guide curates gender-neutral first-dance songs plus aisle-walk ballads, upbeat reception staples and romantic acoustic picks. Everything you need to build an inclusive wedding playlist from the aisle entrance to the last song of the night. Whether you’re searching for “same-sex first dance songs,” “LGBTQ+ aisle songs,” or a queer reception playlist that keeps the floor packed, you’ll find tracks that avoid gendered lyrics and celebrate diverse love stories.

Save this list, stream the playlist and when you’re ready, book a live band that can play every one of these tunes.

We update this playlist every Pride season with new queer anthems, modern ballads and fresh love songs, so check back for more inspiration.

Pop anthems

1. Pink Pony Club - Chappell Roan

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2. I Wanna Dance With Somebody - Whitney Houston
3. Dancing Queen - ABBA
4. Believe - Cher
5. Love at First Sight - Kylie Minogue

Timeless ballads & classics

6. Your Song - Elton John
7. At Last - Etta James
8. Make You Feel My Love - Adele
9. All of Me - John Legend
10. Let’s Stay Together - Al Green

Modern ballads & acoustic

11. Latch - Sam Smith
12. She Keeps Me Warm - Mary Lambert
13. Only You - Parson James
14. Love They Say - Tegan & Sara
15. Bloom - Troye Sivan

All Time Classics

16. Robyn - Dancing On My Own
17. You’re My Best Friend - Queen
18. Born This Way - Lady Gaga
19. Truly Madly Deeply - Savage Garden
20. It’s All Coming Back To Me Now - Celine Dion
21. True Colours - Cyndi Lauper
22. Love of My Life - Queen
23. Karma Chameleon - Culture Club
24. I Will Always Love You - Dolly Parton
25. Like A Prayer - Madonna

Bonus Picks for 2025

26. Rush - Troye Sivan
27. Padam Padam - Kylie Minogue
28. Flowers - Miley Cyrus
29. Don’t Stop Believin’ - Journey
30. I’m Coming Out - Diana Ross

And here's the list as a Spotify playlist:

You can also read our blog post on the Best First Dance Wedding Songs For 2025.